Saturday, July 24, 2010

Healing strained and broken relationships ...this article helps us in healing any relation that has caused hurt to a parent or a child or a spouse or a friend .......lets believe in "BETTER TOMORROWS YOU CAN"
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1. View your relationship from a new perspective and realize how you can change in order to help the relationship change

2. Discover your strengths and recognize that where you are right now and how you see yourself is the starting point for healing not only your relationship but yourself as well.

3. Learn the importance of those things in your past that have contributed to who you are and to how you see life.

4. Learn how to control emotions that threaten to overtake you when you want to respond more calmly to others.

5. Answer the call to action for healing your relationship by choosing a goal that will help you do what must be done if you want to improve your situation.

6. Discover the gift of peace you give yourself when you are able to let go of what you can no longer do anything about and when you forgive both yourself and the other person.

7. Develop a greater awareness of your true self and the ability to manage the disparate parts of yourself that can get caught in a relationship and so prevent you from seeing the possibility of healing.

8. Learn how to open your heart and to live in the joy of the moment, preventing ego from destroying love

9. Explore a practical approach to discussing family disagreements with an open mind and to moving into the future with confidence in healing relationships inside, and outside, your family.

10.Lastly, lets believe that "When we heal our relationship with our parents, we are healing a deep part of ourselves, and this will enhance all our relationships."